What are the traditions surrounding moving into a new house?

My friend at the airport told me I need 7 things: Mama Mary or Santo Nino, rice, salt, sugar, water, oil and live plant.

Another suggested that I threw coins on the floor too. Isn't this done on the house blessing?

Does the moon have anything to do with it? December 12 is the full moon, but we don't get the keys to the house until December 15 @ 2pm. This one is out of my hands.

What are your traditions? I guess it will not hurt me to follow some traditions, right? As long as I know the reason/logic behind it.

I also decided to do a little research --

"While there may be many customs worldwide associated with housewarming, the most familiar one is that of bringing three items: salt to ensure that life in the new home will always have flavor; bread, so that the homeowners will never go hungry; and wine, so that joy and prosperity will reign forever. The tradition of bringing these three items undoubtedly stems from pre-Christian lore and beliefs, but continues in many parts of the world today." SOURCE

Thai tradition: "You need to bring with you three items, rice, water, and knife. The rice and water, so that there will be plentiful and the owners will live in prosperity, and the knife is to protect the family from any evil spirits."

Chinese tradition: "... bring a flashlight and shine the light into the top and bottom corner of every closet and every room... What you're doing is transferring the spirits from the old place into the new place; you’re showing them where to go. It's a way of lighting their way. SOURCE

"We also had the usual custom of bringing in salt, rice, cotton, monggo seeds and water with us when we moved in." SOURCE
Our new homeThere's no way I will be doing the knife thing... it may cause me badluck. I'm Chinese but I have never heard of the flashlight thing either. Oh well... And what's the logic behind cotton and monggo seeds? Anyone?

I can't wait to see the inside of our new home. Anyway, after I bring in these "traditional" starters, the first thing I want to move and set up is our Christmas tree! I can't feel the Christmas spirit without a Christmas tree.

We have 9 days to move our stuff slowly. I use smaller boxes so I can move some stuff alone while the kids are in school. Then we will set aside either Saturday or Sunday [depending on the weather] to move all the heavier stuff and rent a U-Haul truck. I plan to sleep in our new home by December 21. If not, we will definitely celebrate Christmas in our new home. Wish us luck.

BTW, here's an interesting historical link --
Contractors in Fuzhou City, southeast China, have moved a historic priest's house to preserve traditions.

Promotional pens

A friend of mine is really into customizing her Christmas gifts to her family and friends. Though her budget is a little tight this year because of several trips she made, she decided to go with the promotional pens. Don’t ask me why she does that, she just do. Anyway, I am still waiting to see how my pen would look like.

Wordless Wednesday: Falls



Banff National Park

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Photo Hunt: Reflection





Here's baby Alex, playing with his own reflection.
This was his 1st birthday celebration in New York City, January 2008.



And my reflection during one of our many road trips... with my Nikon.

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Change of career

For new immigrants, finding your first job can be a real challenge. Like for instance our friend H. He got college degree and used to work in the top 1000 corporation in the Philippines.

Here, he has been in and out of different job for the past 4 months. Now, he decided he wanted to be a truck driver as the pay is good. So he is now at the truck driving school to get his license.

Do you have a Last Will and Testament?

Currently, I’ve been taking additional tax courses. One of them is about Deceased and Trust Returns. In this course, I suddenly realized how important for one to have a Will, and an updated Will for that matter. It doesn’t matter if you only have a few thousand dollars in your bank account or you have multi-million dollar corporation. The important thing is who gets what if and when you die. Do you just want it to go to just anybody? Or do you want your family to fight over who gets what?

Even if you think you have nothing to put in the Will, but have young children, you would want to make sure that your children will not go to a foster home. You would want to make sure that your children will be looked after by someone you can trust. For this purpose alone, a Will is very important.

Case #1
A is married to B. They had a Will. They got divorce. A married C and lived a very happy life with his new family. A died without leaving a new Will to supersede the first Will. Guess what? Everything went to B! C can’t even fight it in court.

Case #2
A is married to B. They didn’t have a Will. They separated without filing for divorce. A and C becomes common-law partner [no Will]. They never filed their tax return as common-law either. A dies. Guess what? B gets everything! Because in the eyes of the law, B is the legal wife and C doesn’t exist at all.

So filing as common-law may not benefit you at present [especially if you are both working full-time], but you should, and if you did, C might have a case here.

Case #3
A and B are married and have children. They don’t have a Will. A dies. B gets everything. Later on, B married C. They don’t have a Will. B dies. Guess what? Everything went to C and his children. None of the children of A and B got a single penny. Is that fair? I know that wasn’t the intention of B, but without a Will, her children with A gets nothing.

A death in a family may cause reunion and forgiveness OR it may drive a family apart! Money is the root of all evil. Never ever forget that!

Going back to school

In Canada, no job is ever secure. And continuous study is always an advantage whether you are in your 20s, 30s, 40s or even 50s. As you all know, I am back in class to upgrade my knowledge in preparing a tax return. And even though I’ve been doing taxes for 4 years, I am still learning something new in my class.

For those who don’t have time to go to school but wanted to get another degree, you might want to consider getting an online degree with Capella University. They are an accredited online university where you can get your university degree, master’s or PhD degrees.

For more information, please visit http://www.capella.edu or call 1-888-CAPELLA (227-3552).

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Friday Fill-ins #7


  1. The last band I saw live was Hall and Oates in Connecticut in 1993. Now that took me a long time to think back.
  2. What I look forward to most on Christmas is spending Christmas in our new home.
  3. My Christmas/holiday shopping is almost done.
  4. Thoughts of our upcoming move fill my head.
  5. I wish I could wear summer clothes at winter time.
  6. Bagpipes is not something I want to learn how to play.
  7. And as for the weekend, tonight I'm looking forward to quiet time at home, tomorrow my plans include going on a furniture hunt and Sunday, I want to attend mass and do some grocery shopping!
Addendum: I just remembered - I watch Apo Hiking Society's concert in Toronto in 2006. But they are not a band.

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Litratong Pinoy: Madumi



Akala ko hindi na ako makakalahok sa linggong ito dahil wala akong makitang litrato na "madumi." Buti na lang at lumabas kami ng mga kaibigan ko at nagkaroon na ako ng "maduming" lahok.

Eto si Ron, 17 months old, bago kumain at habang kumakain!



I couldn't find a dirty picture. It's a good thing I went out with some friends today and got the perfect picture.

Meet 17-months old baby Ron, before and during lunch time.


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Las Vegas Show

A friend of my recently went to Las Vegas for a one-week vacation and also in celebration of her girlfriend’s 40th birthday. They really got a good package deal with airfare and hotel accommodation for around $500 each. When I heard about this, I am motivated to see Las Vegas one more time.

I didn’t like the casinos much, as I don’t like to gamble my life savings away. But I love the night life of the city, the wonderful and colorful interior designs, and of course the famous Las Vegas Shows! I wanted to see Tony “N Tina’s Wedding, Mamma Mia and all the Cirque du Soleil shows.

Have you heard?

I was blog hopping when I came upon this blog's latest entry.

That is not a good news at all. Here I am thinking that the money I made from blogging are tax-free to me. Well, it still is, until our CRA [Canada Revenue Agency] gets hold of this information. I'm sure Paypal would be next.

Wordless Wednesday: Her first party

Patricia has been invited to a girl's party! Simone's birthday was on a Sunday, but she invited Patricia for play date the day before the party.



Meet Patricia's best friend, Simone [in red] and her cousin Alex [with bunny ears].
Simone baked these cupcakes herself!



Patricia's gift to Simone was this Bratz bag. Patricia had the same bag. So now, they are "bag buddies"... too bad Simone and her family "might" move to Ontario by next summer.

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Being a tourist for a change

What's the cheapest way to travel? For us, it's road trip and long drives. When we used to live in Ontario, we would drive to New York at least once or twice a year to visit my husband’s sister and her family.

The year we decided to relocate to Alberta, we made one last trip to New York City. This time though we decided to take the city tour. My sister-in-law and her family decided to join us when we booked with Charter Bus Rental NYC for a day trip to Washington DC. We could have driven, but we decided we wanted to relax and just be a tourist. Besides, looking for a parking in Washington DC can be a pain and expensive.

NYC Bus Charters is a perfect choice for tourists. They got travel consultants that will help you customize your itinerary depending on the places you want to see and the things you want to do at affordable prices. Chartered sightseeing is available in New York, Atlantic City, Albany, Philadelphia, Boston, Baltimore, Niagara Falls, Virginia Beach, Myrtle Beach among others. It doesn’t matter whether you have a small group or a big group, they will be able to accommodate you.

My new toy

Whenever hubby and I go to Future Shop or Best Buy, I am always tempted to walk out with a laptop. But the timing isn't always right. I don't know what feature to look for, and I guess I haven't found the one that I really, really like. That is until last week!

I finally found the perfect laptop for me. The problem is they only have the display model. And it was out of stock in a couple of other branches as well.

Earlier this evening, we decided to try again. And it was in stock. So I brought home a 13.3" HP Intel Core 2 Duo with 320GB hard drive, 4GB Memory and a 5-1 digital media reader. It also got a mini remote control, light view keyboard and the new fingerprint reader!

Luggage or balikbayan boxes

I just accompanied a friend of mine to the mall in search for a luggage. She is going home to the Philippines for the first time after 15 years. She's contemplating whether to use balikbayan boxes or luggage.

After going from one store to the next, she finally decided to buy a Samsonite luggage online. It’s way cheaper than the prices in store even if you add the delivery charges.

Litratong Pinoy: Kinagisnan



Noong bata pa ako, pinakapaborito ko ang Linggo.
Dahil tuwing Linggo, ang bibingka at sapin-sapin ang aming almusal.

When I was young, Sunday was my favorite day.
Because every Sunday, we would have the yummy bibingka and sapin-sapin as our breakfast.


"No Filipino Christmas is complete without Bibingka. Bibingka, is a rice cake similar to the Western pancake in appearance. In taste, texture and way of cooking, however, they are very much different from each other. Bibingka is made from galapong, baked in a special clay pot, lined with a piece of banana leaf, with live coals on top and underneath. It is topped with slices of kesong puti (white cheese) and itlog na maalat (salted duck eggs). The newly-cooked bibingka is spread with butter and sometimes sprinkled with sugar then served with niyog (grated coconut). Galapong is glutinous rice soaked in water then ground with the water to form either a batter or a dough, depending on what the cooked dish is supposed to be."
"Filipino Sapin-Sapin is made from rice flour or rice that has been soaked overnight then crushed into a paste, sometimes yams or yam flour, coconut milk and sugar. Each layer is tinted (the bottom one a deep ube-like purple, the middle a golden yolk yellow,the top one white), and steamed before the next layer is added. This famous Sapin-Sapin originated from the northern part of the Philippines, the province of Abra."
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Wordless Wednesday #8

I plan to stay away from the computer the whole day tomorrow to start my online tax course and hopefully finished it as soon as possible. So my WW is a bit early.



43 days till Christmas...
It's time to start mailing out our personalized Christmas cards.



Goodbye baby Amanda... she's going home to the Philippines end of this month!

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What works for you?

I’ve always wanted to lose weight. But unlike my friend R, I don’t have self-discipline. I don’t have the right motivation to work on losing weight by exercising, by running or even by walking every single day. Another friend suggested that I should try the diet pills she’s been taking. She really did lose some weight and it’s quite tempting. But I said "not now."

How do you stay fit during Christmas season?

We got a huge Filipino community where I am working right now. And in our tradition, Christmas means lots of parties, reunions and gatherings. It also means potlucks, long buffet table with tons and tons of food! And then, we all start to complain about gaining so much weight during this holiday season. Is there such a thing as the best diet pills?

Friday Fun: The Spooky Edition and Photo Hunt: Together

MUA HA HA HA!!! Welcome to the Halloween Edition of Friday Fun [from last Friday]!

  1. Do you dress up with your kids or do you leave it to them?
    I never wore a costume... and I let my kids picked their costume this time.



    Together -- Mr. Ninja and Ms. Bratz' CatGirl

  2. Do you have any special things you do on Halloween?
    Just go around the neighborhood trick or treating...

  3. What is the most creative costume you have seen?
    I didn't really see a "creative" costume last week... we just went out for about 30 minutes. But this is the most creative decoration that I've seen.


  4. Favorite candy?
    Oh Henry and Reese.

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Busy, busy me

I have too much on my hands right now.

I have a Capital Gain Tax course every Friday [from 9am to 4pm]. I have Deceased and Trust Tax course every Mondays and Wednesdays [from 6pm to 9pm]. I also have to finished an online Farming Tax course.

On top of that, I need to start packing and get rid of unwanted stuff lying around in the basement. I also need to finalized our mortgage, insurance and all other paper works... etc. etc.

I have 6 weeks before the possession date [December 15]. That week also marks the end of my tax classes which means I need to review and pass the final exams [3 of them].

And of course, on top of that, I still have my motherly and wifey duties, kids' homework and activities, and house chores to do!

And don't forget about my job at the airport which is twice a week [Mondays and Tuedays from 5:30am to 3:30pm].

I may have to slow down on my blogging... or not.

October's Top EC dropper

I would like to thank the following blogs for regularly dropping their EntreCard here. THANK YOU!!!

  1. New Orleans Food and Fun
  2. Austin Counsel
  3. The Butterfly Journal
  4. Memories Frozen in Time
  5. Symphony of Love
  6. Unpredictable Life
  7. Cez't La Vie
  8. Sasha says...
  9. Heart of Rachel
  10. Orange Derange

Wordless Wednesday #7

Our first snow for this winter! It's getting colder everyday...





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Home Theater

Since we came to Canada, and I think I mentioned this before, my husband and I rarely go out on dates. We go out; we do a lot of road trips as you have read here in my blog, but always with the kids. And we rarely go to the movie theater anymore. It is just way too expensive when I can easily download movies from the internet. So my husband wanted to have his own home entertainment center. He wanted a projector TV, top of the line speakers with a comfortable home theater seating! This way, we can have our quite "date" even at home.

Wine Improves with Age

When my parents used to travel abroad, I remember that they would always buy wine. They buy different brands with unique bottle designs. None of my parents drink wine, not even my 2 brothers. So they were just there on display! They say that wine improves with age. So I’m pretty sure that some of them might be worth something today.

Are you into collecting wines too? You might want to join the wine of the month club.

On losing weight

My blog pal Raquel at Raqmitch.com has been religiously dieting for months now. And in her last entry, you will see the big change in her. She’s watching what she ate and she does a lot of walking everyday. I admire her dedication is losing weight the natural way instead of resulting to medication.

But if you are still struggling with losing weight, you might want to try Alli. Alli is a non-prescription, FDA approved diet pills that reduces the amount of fat absorption. But don't take my word for it, please do your own research.

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Insurance

Our car insurance is up for renewal. And though we haven’t made a single claim since our initial coverage in 2001, the premium still went up a little. So here I am, spending time on the internet looking for auto insurance quotes with the best rates. We will soon need to get a home insurance and hopefully with multi-coverage, we could get a really good deal.